Post # 1
I have read some of the other posts and while I didn’t think I fell into the “waiting” category yet, the events from the past two days have made me believe that I am! My bf and I have been together 8 months (I am 27, he is 33). We live together, and we knew from the 2nd date that we were meant to be togeher (sigh:) Anyhow, we talk about marriage a lot, the wedding, the kids, the house, yada yada yada. So a few weeks ago we nonchalantly decided to look at rings. I tried a few on, and just loved a few (round halo, if you were interested). So, on to the clues. First, we have a lock box in the closet that mysteriously is now locked. He locked his phone with a password. However, I saw a text from my sister yesterday on his phone that said, “It’s beatiful. What a great choice! Well, I know I shouldn’t snoop, but I CANT HELP IT! I took his keys when he was in the shower and opened the lock box, in there I found the wedding band that went with the ring that I loved, but hence, no engagement ring. Then yesterday he told me that he was going to take me on a nice surprise dinner tomorrow night. I don’t want to tell my friends, because if something doesn’t happen, then I’ll look stupid. Ok, phew! I had to get that off my chest. Thanks for listening! Happy waiting!
Post # 3
@ladybug84: What an open relationship you have, snooping through his things. Hope your conscience is clear now. Curiousity killed the cat….good luck
Post # 4
Actually, we have a very open relationship. I don’t think it is out of the ordinary for a man to keep a proposal a secret, and the girl want to snoop a bit out of curiousity. I know I shoudn’t have snooped but I couldn’t help it, out of excitement! Please don’t pass judgement on my relationship because I wanted to find out if my Boyfriend or Best Friend was going to propose or not. I know that some people can wait patiently. However, I know there are plenty of waiting girls that have snooped a bit:)
Post # 5
Ignore the snark shark. Happy waiting! I hope you have a wonderful waiting time and your relationship is blessed!
Post # 6
I am a wicked snoop so I TOTALLY relate! LOL! Sounds exciting! Keep us posted!
Post # 7
How exciting for you!! Definitely give us an update 🙂
Post # 8
@ladybug84: i’m sorry if i was rude, i do hope it’s a great time for you.
Post # 9
Wow, that first reply was a bit harsh! We’re all here to comfort each other, and MOST girls do a bit of snooping! Honest ones, anyway.
Anywho… Congrats! Sounds like you will be switching your status to ‘engaged’ very, very soon!
Post # 10
@ladybug84: Hahaha! That’s hilarious, I do like to snoop but not on wedding things because I know he wants to SURPRISE me! The whole no engagement ring makes me want to snoop FOR YOU. 😉
Lots of love and eagerness for your next post!