(Closed) I think I finally Cracked…. ready to rip heads off.

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
520 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Ugh, I feel you. 

Only one person on FI’s side has even bothered to go in and get fitted yet. We are down to almost a month away, and nope, not one. 

I emailed a girlfriend of one of Groomsmen (since I didn’t have his email) asking if they would mind hosting a bachelor party since no one offered. They said they would do it, would love to make it very special etc. Someone else offered to host him a party before they had sent the reply email and I said yes, thinking they were blowing me off. I told Fiance about the second party so I could get a guest list, so he told the Groomsmen that someone else was also throwing a party. I emailed the Girlfriend again to apologize, said I still wanted her to host it, and got no email back. I even sent her another one saying I’m not sure if she got my message, and nothing. I don’t know what to do anymore! 


This entire wedding has been one big mess for me. 

Post # 5
2247 posts
Buzzing bee

ugh, at least you could get your Fiance to ask people to be his GMs.  My Fiance still hasn’t asked anyone =(

Post # 6
1474 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Pinksapphire: True that! We’re at less than 3 months now, and Fiance STILL hasn’t officially picked anyone. 

Post # 7
17 posts
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m so with you on this. My girls have been organized, on time, and all around “with it”. My FI’s guys? Not so much. We had to go pick up his best man and take him in to get fitted because my Fiance honestly didn’t think he’d ever do it unless we made him. Awe-some. One other guy has gotten fitted on his own and the other…who knows. 

I SO feel you on the bachelor party too. I asked the Best Man and the other GM’s if they have anything planned and if so when etc. No answer for a good 3 months to that question. Finally I told my Fiance that if he wanted one and we needed to budget for it then he would need to light a fire under someone’s ass. Luckily some of the guys stepped up and started planning it. 

Post # 8
204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011 - ceremony in our family's Catholic church in Watsonville; reception at the Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk

@.twist.: Wanna run away to Vegas together?

I’m right there with you, but with different drama. * HUGS *

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