Post # 1
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Blushing bee
So I am 14dpo
Have had major cramps and aches, gas and nausua. Then my usually pms (sore boobs) did not show. so I have tested evey other day. First 2 which was at 10dpo and 12dpo was negative. Then today I got faint lines. One Cleared blue early (because period is due in 2days) and then I did one that is suppose to be after a missed period.
Does the lightness or the line mean something ? I will take a new pregnancy test in 2 days. Have doc appointment as well because I thought it was cysts not a baby, I feel so blessed. 
Do I tell my husband or do I wait until the doc appointment and another test?
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee
- Wedding: September 2017 - California
Congrats! Not a squinter :). I don’t know that the lightness matters much. Sometimes a lack of progression to darker lines over time is associated with a chemical pregnancy but my understanding is that an HPT is not really useful in telling much about a pregnancy other than that it exists.
Post # 3
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Helper bee
Congratulations! They aren’t squinters at all. I bet if you took a FRER, the line would be a lot darker.
Make a doctors appointment, start taking folic acid if you’re not already, and enjoy this moment!
Unless for some reason you wouldn’t tell your husband if something went wrong early in your pregnancy, I don’t know why you wouldn’t tell him? You’re pregnant! xx
Post # 4
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Helper bee
Oh, yes….these lines are blazing!!! Congrats! 🙂
Post # 5
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Blushing bee
Thank you. I ll take one per day and hope it gets stronger. Seeing gyno on Tuesday so Will ask for a blood test .
I told my husband and bff because I previously had an CP . Then we weren’t allowed to try for 6months due to me having to have multiple surgeries and then in November I had a cyst burst so when I started cramping very badly a week ago I thought it was a cyst or maybe an EP
Now I am praying for a healthy and viable pregnancy.
Post # 6
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Helper bee
- Wedding: November 2018 - City Hall
LouiseN : congratulations to you! Wishing you a healthy baby and pregnancy.
Post # 7
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Helper bee
LouiseN : if you’re going to keep testing, test once every two days max!
Post # 8
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Blushing bee
Thank you all for your support
Post # 9
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Blushing bee
I have zero will power. Tried a different brand today. I know it is silly bit it reassuring to see a faint line at least . We are worried about a CP or an Ectopic but it is in his hands and I am just gonna keep praying and feeling blessed. I think I implated late and my cramps are much better now (from saturday) but I feel like my overtime hurts a bit but it jumps from one side to another. The back is the most painful but I can function. I will keep you posted on my journey. Hopefully the doc can do a blood test and we can see my hcg rising .
Post # 11
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Busy bee
FWIW I obsessively tested every other day for almost a whole month after my first squinter and it took a longgg time for the lines to darken. All was well and am now almost 18 weeks 🙂
Post # 12
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Blushing bee
mariana1114 : I know the feeling! I tested everyday almost the entire first trimester. I couldn’t believe it! She turns 4 months on Thursday 🙂
Congrats on your little ones!