(Closed) I think I have self control

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I would check into this much further.  No wonder he looks upset (whether he’s interested in her or not) apparently something is coming out of the woodwork.  How did she learn that you are going to be away in the first place, especially if He hasn’t talked to her in 8 years?  Really?

It’s very hard to believe, after a year’s time from last contact, which supposedly happened after a whole 8 years hiatus that he was attacked by her in the middle of a store. 

And I work professionally with people in mental health crisis, so this is coming from someone who has seen people do some outrageous things.  Cheaters are always trustworthy until they get caught the first time.

Post # 4
7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Some people just like causing drama. Block her from the phones and hopefully your FI doesn’t have any contact with her.

Post # 6
9679 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Stalker alert. I feel bad for your FI and you. He’s done the right thing so far. If she ever gropes him again in public, he might need to yell loudly to embarrass her. 

Post # 8
2972 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Sounds fishy to me…I wouldn’t lay all the blame at her feet without investigating a bit.

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