(Closed) I think I just offended my boyfriend…help? :(

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@goodasitgets:  What your friend has suggested is exactly what you shoudl say.

It is open and honest, you were just confused and didn’t think that it was a proper invitation. Be sure to repeat, again, that you would much rather go with him and his family than go by yourself to visit your friend. It is possible that he also got a little jealous and doesn’t want to admit it. 

It’s just a misunderstanding and I’m sure you’ll work it out as long as you say what you’ve written above. 

And hey – YAY! Austria! With your boyfriend and his family! How amazing!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@goodasitgets:  Although, I wouldn’t start with “Listen BF” because that sounds confrontational rather than apologetic. And it is an apology for accidently making him feel unwanted.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

+1 to everything Tickles said! Just tell him the truth. It was just a misunderstanding. Have fun in Austria!! 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@goodasitgets:  The written word can help a lot when you want someone to be able to really understand and re-read without the pressure of having to respone straight away.

Let us know how it goes. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I’m so glad that things have worked out. ๐Ÿ™‚

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