(Closed) I think I love my cousin….

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 47
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4047 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

This is a non-issue. I wouldn’t stress so much about it. Also, I would stop calling him your cousin when he technically really isn’t. I was expecting something much worse and if you keep referring to him as your cousin people WILL think you’re weird when it isn’t a weird situation at all. If your family set you up “romantically” then, again, this is a total non-issue and you’re making a problem over nothing. 

Post # 48
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1639 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

If you’re not blood related, it’s okay. I can see why you might be a little freaked out just because of the implications of the word “cousin” but he’s not even technically your cousin. He’d be some sort of possible cousin twice removed nonsense. I don’t even know how those things go.

But if you love him, you love him. 

Post # 49
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9681 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Too close for comfort for me. If you need a disclaimer to explain you aren’t with a relative, that’s not good. With billions of people in the world, I’d choose one who wasn’t in my family by marriage or not. 

Post # 50
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4581 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You’re not related by blood. You’re only distantly related by marriage. If you like this guy, go for it!

I personally don’t find it weird at all. But my dad’s brother is married to my mom’s niece, so I’m no stranger to quirky family relationships.

Post # 51
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522 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Bettyboop1234567:  You’re not actually cousins by any measure I know of. My aunt-by-marriage’s nephew is not considered my cousin at all.

Post # 52
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963 posts
Busy bee

You’re fine! Don’t worry about it. I think I have a cousin who’s married to someone with a similar family tie to this. Really, it’s fine.

Post # 53
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1953 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Don’t refer to him as your cousin. If you’re not blood, you’re good to go. The family might get a bit of a shock but there’s no blood there so take the risk if you want to.

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