(Closed) I think I really screwed up.

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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4272 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Was he going on about how attractive she was? If so, that is messed up on his part.

Post # 4
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Worker bee

@misskittenn:  I’m sure it will be fine. I am the same way when things get a little tough and Fiance wants some space I freak out big time. I know it’s hard but I am sure he will text you back soon. 

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@Cady:  +1

I wouldn’t like that either. You may have overreacted, but he shouldn’t have kept poking at a sore spot either. Whenever he’s ready to talk I would (calmly) point that out. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

 I agree with all the PP. Also if he has done it in the past to get your attention then he knows it bothers you. You should be sorry for him saying someone else is attractive followed by a nice thing about you, then you saying you dont feel like it . 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Why don’t you try to get out of the house and get your mind off of your phone? Sitting and staring at it will not help you, and getting out there and being busy could ease your stress. 

Post # 10
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4654 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

i know what it’s like to obsess. i dont’ know how to make it better, but that obsessing feeling is so overwhelming and all consuming. it’s like a magnet that keeps pulling you back. sorry you’re going through this.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

I think you both sound a little immature– no offense meant and this is just based off what I’m reading right here, so I obviously don’t know your relationship very well. 

He shouldn’t be trying to make you jealous on purpose– goading you into a response to get attention is just immature.  I have no problem if Fiance is like “she’s a babe!” about some girl, but he would never go on about her in a deliberate attempt to make me jealous so that he could feel better about himself. 

I also don’t think you should be so invested in waiting for a text from him.  He’s obviously doing his own thing, so learn to do something for yourself.  Get a hobby, watch TV, throw the phone across the room!  You shouldn’t be so dependent on waiting for your phone to light up.  Let him text you first, don’t place all of your self worth on whether he responds quickly or sends you long detailed text messages.  

If you’ve got school pressure, go out and have a drink! Read a book or take a bubble bath.  Spend some time on yourself instead of waiting by the phone, you’ll feel a lot better.

Post # 13
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

@bookworm88:  Agree with everything you said.

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