(Closed) I think I ruined it :(

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2934 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

Awww. I’m sorry! I think you should try very hard to forget you saw that email and instead focus all your brain on attending this wedding. Think about what going to the wedding will be like, imagine the bride in her dress, imagine an evening dancing with your SO and eating a wedding meal at a table with other guests. Think of that and ONLY that — then, if there’s a surprise, it will actually feel like one.

Post # 5
60 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

i would love to be in your position. I happened the other day to be in the same postioin (our emails/computers are shared) and there was nothing. not a spec of planning or talking to friends or looking etc. Trust me, just chill – even though you have a hunch – it hasn’t happened yet – so it’ll still be a surprise! You don’t know if its coming before dinner, hidden in the dessert or on the way home. — or maybe not till new years! enjoy it.



Post # 6
481 posts
Helper bee

A little anticipation never hurt! :}

Post # 7
238 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I ruined my proposal too! lol Didn’t make it less special. In my opinion, of course.

Post # 8
875 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@MsTireSmoke:  Ditto this! It sucked that I ruined it/found out but I was still beyond excited to see that ring and hear those words. 🙂


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