I think I should leave- I don't want this forced proposal anymore

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What would you do?
    Leave and just move on cause you don't want something that he has been pushed into? : (67 votes)
    44 %
    Stick with it, maybe he has something planned-massively unlikely though? : (25 votes)
    16 %
    Stick with it a bit longer and then speak to him? : (62 votes)
    40 %
  • Post # 62
    Member
    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @mollypuppy:  you’re being a control freak. chill out. 

    Post # 63
    Member
    866 posts
    Busy bee

    @mamadingdong:  no you didn’t say anything that others didn’t say, yours was the first i read that was like that and I guess i strongly disagreed. not angry though, so probably no need to kick rocks.

    I think everyone is being too hard on the OP, the thing is she says she knows she has been too controlling, that is the point of her post. She knows she hasn’t done this the right way and she wishes she had done better, It just seems like everyone is kicking her and reinforcing what she is already feeling so awful about.She so strongly knows her behaviour has been wrong that it is making her doubt the one thing she wants most.

    Post # 64
    Member
    4698 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Here’s a novel idea, enjoy your relationship! This situation sounds insufferable, I wouldn’t want the proposal either if I berated someone into giving it to me.

    When it’s right, it’s right. He doesn’t have to be saving money behind your back in order for it to be real, nor does he have to jump when you say jump. Chill out, fast or this guy you claim to love is going to run for the hills.

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