(Closed) I think I'm gonna go crazy

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
  • poll:
    He will propose soon : (5 votes)
    50 %
    He's just making sure you're ready : (2 votes)
    20 %
    You need to simmer down : (3 votes)
    30 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Sounds like he wants to be engaged just as badly! Have you guys looked at rings yet?!

    Post # 5
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Waiting can be really hard, even when you talk openly the way you guys do.  As much as you can, I’d say just try & be patient.  You don’t want to ruin the moment by thinking too hard about it!  I knew exactly when my fiance was going to propose & I kind of wish I didn’t.  A surprise would have been really nice.

    But as far as the rings go, are you sure he’s going that route with purchasing? I was actually given my FI’s grandmother’s ring which was really sentimental.  Or maybe he’s thinking of bringing you ring shopping.  I wouldn’t worry too much about finding a sign of him searching for a ring.  As long as he’s saying he’s got a plan, try as much as you can to let him do his thing & enjoy the time you spend together now 😉

    Post # 8
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    @jigga143:  If you’re on the same page about it, and you have a special weekend planned in February, well then. . . 😉 Sounds pretty good to me!

    You know, it’s quite possible that he’s deleted some of his internet history and hidden any evidence on the computer, so that could be why you saw nothing (btw, maybe poking around on his computer will make you feel more pent-up? I hope he wouldn’t be offended if he knew you’d done so!).

    Or, maybe him saying that stuff is his way of saying to you, “please tell me what ring you prefer so I can get on with this!”

    I think it might be good to ask if he is all set where ring choice goes, and maybe pick one final one out together, or pick a few options for him to choose from, if he is not already well-prepared in that department. Then you won’t have to worry about that!

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