(Closed) I think I'm scared of… (TMI!)

posted 9 years ago in TTC
  • poll: Are you scared/grossed out by semen?

    Yes

    No

    Just scared

    Just grossed out

  • Post # 17
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    LOL! Haha…Fiance and I do not use condoms (he hates them), but I’m on birth control. His little men do not scare me! ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 18
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Oh dear. I’m a lesbian and my Dear Fiance and I are planning to start TTC in the next year or so. This is a very relevant thread for me. And overwhelming :/

    Post # 19
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    Buzzing bee

    This entire post has had me in stitches. I cannot imagine running to the bathroom, immediately after sex, holding a tissue to my lady parts.

    OP, it’s honestly not that bad. I second the idea of letting him finish on you, so you can get used to the texture, if you think it may become an issue when you begin TTC.

    Post # 20
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Ok, I’m gonna be the odd woman out. Semen, in general, doesn’t gross me out. But if it gets on my hands, particularly the back of my hand, I totally freak. I hate it. I’d rather have it on my face, in my hair, on my belly, in my mouth, wherever. So, while I think you should get some exposure to it, I wouldn’t recommend that he let you jizz on your hand or body. That can be… unpleasant.

    Post # 21
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    It’s really not scary at all! I don’t see it as being any different than saliva exchange when you kiss.

    Maybe just pretend it’s lotion ๐Ÿ˜‰ buuuut now I’m teasing you a little.

    Post # 22
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @Steinberg:  LOL LOL LOL I can’t believe you’d rather it on your face!!!!!!!!  Stop. It. Now! 

    Oh man, this thread…

    Semen isn’t all that bad – I think of it as not that much different than when we come.  It’s not delicious and it burns if you get it in your eye (uh, not that I know first hand… or anything), but I really don’t find it that terrible or disgusting.  I definitely used to when I was younger before I gave a few HJs and got it all over my hands and realized – hey, that just wipes away with a tissue! 

    I say – let him have some fun – let him finish on your belly, on your butt – give a few HJs and BJs (uhm, don’t get it in your mouth the first few times, because that’ll probably just make you hate it more lol) and then I’m sure you’ll start to get used to it. 

    Post # 23
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

    @Mischka:  What do you do then if you don’t wipe it up right away? Just curious and wondering if there’s something else I could do. If I don’t do anything at all, I end up with a UTI (I’m very suceptible to those though).

    Post # 24
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    Buzzing bee

    @ScottishMrs:  Without going into too much details…we finish, stay as we are for a few minutes, cuddling, or whoever’s on top gets off and we snuggle. Some nights we fall asleep as we are, though most nights after 15-ish minutes cuddling/kissing/talking, I’ll nip to the bathroom, have a wee and wipe (obviously) and if it’s chilly I’ll put some pants/singlet on, otherwise I just jump straight into bed.

    I’ve never had a UTI, but I am aware you’re supposed to pee after sex.

    From your post, I got the impression that your ‘clean up’ starts the second he pulls out, which I would feel kind of makes the whole act feel dirty. Not that it is or that you should feel that way, it’s just I can’t imagine that being the first thing I do after he/we finish. All I want to do is stay in his arms and be as close to him as possible.

    Post # 25
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - Catholic Church

    @Mischka:  Oh no, it’s not much of a ‘clean up’ as it is more of a ‘plug up’ and we don’t see it as dirty; I didn’t mean to give the impression that we did. We still get to snuggle and cuddle and we find it’s a very intimate act. I do have to make sure to go pee within about 15-20 minutes though so a UTI doesn’t come on, unfortunately. It would be nice to be able to just stay all cuddly and close for longer though. You’re lucky :).

    Post # 26
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    Newbee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I am totally with you, seamen does creep me out! me and DH are TTC and when he releases inside of me it doesnt bother me. but as oral goes, i wont do it, i wont let him release in my mouth. it gives the creeps, all those little swimmers swimminig around in my mouth, i just cant get over it. LOL i have definitly tried before, but i just cant get over it, and he and i have been together for 7 years! haha! 

    Post # 27
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    This made me literally LOL lol.  I can see where it would weird you I tut.  But it’s really not as bad as you think.  ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 28
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    This made me literally LOL lol.  I can see where it would weird you I tut.  But it’s really not as bad as you think.  ๐Ÿ™‚

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