- 11 years ago
- Wedding: July 2010
Yeah I have definitely learned my lesson. I thought they were my closest friends. Not that you can judge friendships in $.. but since Bridesmaid or Best Man1’s children have been on he earth I have not missed a birthday or a Christmas for them. I just wouldn’t do that because I thought that was what friendship was. Being caring and filling the gaps. She didn’t even bring me a gift to the shower.. not that I cared.. but I didn’t do that for her.. I paid and still brought a gift because I knew what she wanted.
I see maybe it was just one sided because I would never ever do any of them this way. But thank you guys.. for being an outlet.
Mr. Fab really doesn’t understand it..and how it hurts me. He says at least we know now instead of 7/2.. but that doesn’t make me feel any better (not today anyway!)
Yes, I am probably “soft” but these were my friends for minimum of 16 years… and I didn’t realize that I had to be guarded. But I know now. I should’ve just said.. this is where its gonna be.. yes or no.. this is how much the dresses are..yes or no.. this is what you are required to do.. yes or no.. but that sounds so ugly and I could never do that to “friends”. But now I am making excuses for myself.. but for sure my upper lip will be way more stiff. Just hurts now.