(Closed) I think my MOH hates her dress

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I honestly wouldnt worry about it. If she didnt speak up to tell you she didnt like then I would ignore any comments she is making about it to other people. You cant win them all I guess.

Post # 4
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921 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

It sounds like it just wasn’t what she was expecting, but I would just forget about it and have her wear the dress.. if she hasn’t said anything to you then she can’t hate it that much. 

Post # 5
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2742 posts
Sugar bee

Well, my sisters AND my one Bridesmaid or Best Man straight up said they didn’t like the dress I picked. AFTER they all agreed on it AND ordered it. I told them to change it if they want to. I can’t really be bothered.

Post # 6
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1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

If I was in your place I’d forget about it. She didn’t dislike it enough to tell you about it, don’t stress it. I’m sure you have dozens of other things to worry about.

Post # 7
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1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’d say don’t worry. If it was that huge of a deal she’d talk to you about it. Let her get it altered and wear it.

I know my Maid/Matron of Honor doesn’t like her dress too much but told me as long as I like it, that is what matters and she doesn’t have to wear it again.

Post # 8
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211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I went with my Maid/Matron of Honor and one of my BMs to pick out the dress and they both liked it. I later came to learn a different Bridesmaid or Best Man doesn’t like the dress but she could have come when we picked it but didn’t.

 

I wouldn’t stress about it too much, if she really hated it she probably would have said something. She is wearing it for you anyway and its your wedding so I think its more important that you like the dress and fits with your theme and colors etc.

 

Post # 9
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925 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Awww I’m sorry you’re in that situation. I feel like I know how you feel–I am worried that my BMs don’t like their dresses. My sisters are my MOHs and they are wearing one style of dress, and I think they legitimately like it, but the BMs have a different dress that is slightly different, but similar style, and they all agreed on it. However, I get the feeling they don’t all love the dress, either. Everytime I ask about it I get, “I will wear whatever you want,” and “The dress is fine.” I thought they all liked it–that’s why we went with it!

Don’t you wish people would have spoken up!!??!!

PS–I’m still in love with both of the dress choices but I just feel bad making them pay for dresses they don’t like. I could be wrong, they may like them, but it doesn’t seem like it too much… 🙁

Post # 10
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2600 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I would let this one go – she didn’t tell you before… and you’ve got much bigger fish to fry in wedding land 🙂

I think it’s also partly that it’s a blog and there’s some peer pressure out there that you’re *supposed* to not like your bridesmaid dress and be funny and sarcastic in bloggyland. 

In any case – move on and waste no stress on this 🙂

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Really I wouldn’t worry about it.  Even if she dislike’s the dress she should suck it up and wear it because you are her friend and you are the bride.  I know the last wedding I was in, we are talking like 7 yrs are so ago the dresses were uglyyyyy but I wore it anyway because that is what my friend chose for a dress. 

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