(Closed) I think my Priest Hates Me!!!!!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Catholic
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@ashasmith:  To me it doesn’t sound like he hates you! Was there anything else he said or did? 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@ashasmith:  it sounds like he just has an odd sense of humor… I don’t think he hates you

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I think he sounds like an awkward individual, but there’s nothing here that makes me think he dislikes you.

I don’t know how I’d respond to someone who asked me to leave briefly during a break, though. That’s the whole point of breaks. Maybe he’s trying to indicate that he doesn’t particularly care where you’re going. Not because he hates you but because he genuinely has no interest.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

In all seriousness, is he a foreign priest? At the other catholic churches in my area, there a a few priests who speak pretty poor English. They often misunderstand slang phrases.

Is it possible something like that was the case?

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

@ashasmith:  It sounds like you’re worrying for no reason! You did nothing wrong. I’d bet he just expressed himself a bit oddly.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper

@ashasmith:  Did he know you had children prior to you mentioning it tonight? Some priest still hold very traditional values in regards to matters like that.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

@ashasmith:  Well then I think he probably just has a bad sense of humour!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If this is an older gentleman he may be pondering the “new” phrases.  I don’t think he hates you.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

he might have an odd sense of humor, he might just be saying something to say (so he doesnt look at you in silence). or he might not like you. hard to say, but doesnt sound like he has been mean

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

@MidwestBride2012:  —> THIS

Altho you are trying to be polite (and I get that) … he probably wonders WHY it is you need to feel you have to tell him your plans in advance of doing something when you are technically on your own time (breaktime & class over)

If it was me in his shoes… first time, I’d think “well ok then”… second time, I’d be taken aback probably too.

 

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