(Closed) …I think my wedding was cursed. Couples are dropping like flies.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Wow!

That is very strange and interesting!

How are you two doing?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@GreenEyedMoon:  That’s very strange.

Fi has a very tight set of guy friends, at one point they were all in relationships, after we got engaged, one by one started breaking up with their SO’s including the one’s who lived together. Now there’s only us and another long time couple left, all our close friends (except for that long relationship one) are single now.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@GreenEyedMoon:  Well, that’s what matters right? =) congratulations.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Bent Creek Winery (Livermore, California); Reception: Family Residence (San Ramon, California)

Oh that is so sad! Sending lots of good thoughts their way. And so glad you and your husband are doing so well! Keep on lovin’! 😉

Post # 8
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Bumble Beekeeper

It sucks that people you love are feeling sad, but it’s defintely just a coincidence and not in any way your fault!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Then sounds like you are one lucky girl!

So sad that everyone else’s relationships have been ending, especially the long term ones.

Maybe it’s just the timing.

Really big coincidence though…

Post # 10
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@GreenEyedMoon:  Seems like with our wedding approaching that a lot of people have been getting divorces/breaking up.  It’s pretty crazy.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yikes!

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

That is interesting, because three of the couples who attended our wedding, plus another in which only the wife was able to attend, have split subsequent to our wedding.  Two of the couples were married and now are either divorced or divorcing, and two were not married.

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

That sucks…but things happen around weddings sometimes with my mom everyone got prego…i think 2 Bridesmaid or Best Man and 1 guest all got prego the night of her wedding…

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2010

Well, one divorce in a group of friends tends to have a proven ripple effect. Others may get the courage or be caused to reflect on their own relationship, or be encouraged to make changes knowing they will have support from people going through similar.

Also, weddings – seeing other make or knowing others make their own vows – can have some also reflect on whether their relationship should move to marriage (or add pressure to the decision)…or whether their marriage is living up to their own vows and expectations. 

 

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