(Closed) I think there may (finally) be progress

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Aw, this is such great news.  Marriage is scary but hopefully you’ll now be able to have open and honest conversations.  Keep us posted!

Post # 4
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Worker bee

WOW! What an emotional rollercoaster!! But does sound like some progress has been made. I think you need to keep the communitcations going now that tyey have started and really examine, what he is so frightened of, but also let him know that you do want to get married, buy a house, have children. Better to talk through it all now ratehr than both be there with very different expectations.

xxx

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I also had to force my SO to think about what HE wanted in the next 5 years, with me or without me, to get the ball rolling. I am so glad things are going better for you! Try to keep that communication up about all needs and life desires, you want to be on the complete same page.

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

I would have been completely hysterical and even after he came back Id be miffed. Been together for 5.5 years and still is scared of comitting? Ugh. Lucky for him you are a better person than I am!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Im sorry it was so dramatic for you guys, but at least he knows now exactly what he wants.

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