- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
So we have 2 ushers, one of my cousins and then my sister’s boyfriend. We had decided to have my sister’s bf be an usher because they had been together for 2 and a half years at the time of our engagement (october), and he was a nice guy and we all got a long and him and my sister were very serious. Well recently they have been fighting a lot and she even talks about breaking up with him… it hasn’t happened yet, but by the way she talks I really think it’s going to happen. Needless to say he will not be an usher if they break up. What I’m mulling over is if it’s ok for us to have just one usher. I really can’t think of anyone else to be an usher. All of FI’s male cousins are groomsmen and my family is full of women and men are scarce, lol. Anywyays, the groomsmen were going to help seat guests anyways, so I’m not too worried about that, but I don’t know if my cousin is going to feel awkward if he’s the only usher. Also, if he’s the only usher then he’ll be the only one “dressed” like an usher. The ushers and groomsmen are wearing tuxes, the difference is that the vests/ties are different colors, so now he’ll be the only one wearing that color, will that be weird too? Do you think it’s weird to have just one usher? Is my cousin going to look like some random guy who decided to wear a tux?