(Closed) i thought bridesmaid were supposed to be there for you…

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Member
572 posts
Busy bee

That sux! I’m sorry that you have to deal with this. Some people just dont think about what they say before they say it. All I can suggest is that if you feel uncomfortable having her in your bridal party then dont. It is your day and you have a right to have a specific way. Also, only tell her about your wedding plans when she asks dont offer up any extra information that way you will save yourself from wanting to kill her everytime she rolls her eyes. lol

I hope this helps!

Post # 4
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1245 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Wow I am so sorry, I feel your pain! Things will get better I’m sure! Just remember they aren’t the ones who matter on YOUR day, it’s going to be about you and your man. How long have ya’ll been together? 

Maybe she isn’t ready for the spot light to be off of her…

Post # 5
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8 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2010

malpacki, i completely feel your pain/anger!!! I’m having a ton of the same issues. I’m 5 1/2 weeks away from my wedding and at this point I realize I hate everyone that says they are your friend or heck your sisters. I don’t really have any advice for you since I don’t know any to give myself. I will say this, don’t have her in your wedding just because you were in her’s and don’t have anyone that isn’t supportive no matter when they will be supportive. You and be your Fiance are the only 2 that should matter that day so maybe just you 2 stand up there! I wish the best of luck!!

Post # 6
Hostess
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I wouldn’t include her as a bridesmaid.  You don’t have to have couples as a bridesmaid/groomsman.  I would include people who are close to you and friends with you.  You don’t need the stress of someone who doesn’t really care about you as your bridesmaid!

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