(Closed) I thought I knew what I wanted…but I have no idea!

posted 4 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
45662 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@khaleesi:  Have you established your budget? To me that is the first decision to be made when it comes to wedding planning.


Post # 4
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@khaleesi:  You still have plenty of time. (Over a yr) Once you decide on who you truly want there with you on your day, then it will be easier to make that decision.  What I’ve learned through this process is that once I start to get overwhelmed, I set the planning aside for the rest of the day. This is supposed to be a wonderful and magical time. Do not let it get you to a place that you aren’t enjoying it anymore. 

Post # 6
246 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Keep in mind for a destination wedding you will lose a lot of people that will come. I invited 102, so far only 38 have committed. A lot of our aunts and uncles are not coming. so we are saving money that way less people less expense. But if you want a bigger wedding with your whole family there I recommend staying local. 

I thought that for sure all of the family would come, but it’s not the case, especially if the trips end up to be expensive. 

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