(Closed) I thought it was closer than this…bummed.

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1089 posts
Bumble bee


Hang in there!  Hopefully he’ll realize what the women in his life think is best for him and really start to feel that way too!  Hopefully he’ll also be willing to discuss his fears with you so that you can give him the reassurance he needs to take that next step in your relationship.

Post # 4
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

How old are ya’ll/how long have you been together?

I know that this might not be helpful, but early on in my relationship my SO and I talked about appropriate time frames for engagement.  I told him mine thinking that it was perfect and he looked shocked.  His was more than twice what I said!  Either way, we met in the middle (hopefully closer to my end).  Could he just be attached to his preconcieved notions of how long you “should” date before engagement?  I found that my SO made his time line based on what his father (and his buddies no doubt) told him.

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