(Closed) I thought that I was finally doing better…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
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Blushing bee

To me, if sounds like you are on the right track and it is a wise decision waiting until you are finished school. Your relationship sounds like it is strong and moving in the right direction, you communicate well with each other. It’s OK to ask for a bit of reassurance from time to time (very different than nagging in my opinion) and continue to work on strengthening your relationship (which sounds quite solid to me By The Way.)

His mom’s relationship isn’t yours (and she is at a different stage of life than you) and getting engaged isn’t competition or a race. Just keep reminding yourself of that, that your time will come and focus on enjoying your present (and truly being happy for her.)

My younger sister married before I did (I’m a Mother-of-the bride -the date above is my daughter’s). When she married, I didn’t even have a boyfriend at the time. I remember feeling a bit sad about it but I didn’t want to be like that. So I mentally reminded myself that it was *their wedding*, I wanted to be happy for her & her Fiance, celebrate their wedding and enjoy myself. It helped a lot and I did enjoy their wedding.

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