(Closed) I want a baby, but at the same time we aren\'t ready.

posted 4 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

truthah:  Not oral or anal sex……

Post # 17
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Malibou Lake Mountain Club

kirann:  its possible BUT is he aware? this is something to talk about with him

Post # 18
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

If you’re on the pill, you’re not fertile. BCP stops ovulation,

Post # 23
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016 - St. John\'s Lutheran Church

If you take your birth control religiously every night, the chances of you getting pregnant, pull out or no, are slim to none.

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

kirann:  If you’re taking birth control pills, you aren’t highly fertile. They are more than 99% effective. Add in pulling out, and your chances of pregnancy are extremely low. Like, probably no chance. 

truthah:  Ha! I actually saw that a while back. So crazy. Someone has probably gotten pregnant from anal sex, too…..but I’m not going to go gooling that…. :0

Post # 25
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Darling Husband and I had unprotected sex while I was on the pill four years with no pregnancy. There’s a less than 1% chance of getting pregnant on the pill provided you take it as per instructions. 

If you’re not ready for a child then please do wait. If you’re looking to find way to get pregnant by skipping pills and using the excuse that you’re ‘highly fertile’ then that’s a no go. I’m not saying that you are, it just came to mind. BIL’s girlfriend essentially did that and they’re both pretty miserable.

Post # 26
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Blushing bee

It’s a lifetime commitment, wait until your partner and you are 100% on board and willing and ready, It will make the experience feel more positive. Accidents do happen but If your not ready do what you can to prevent it. 

Post # 27
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

OP – the calendar which tells you your fertile days is assuming you are not on birth control pills. The pills stop you ovulating, so no fertile days and no worries!

I hope you get through your tough situation and get your chance to start a family when the timing is right for you and your partner.

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