- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Just have an actual bridesmaid or groomsman hold one with them up there so it’s not so odd.
Rather than have them in the bridal party, you can always encorperate them into your day in other ways! Like, having them at your head table at the reception as part of the table decorations or on the cake table or gift table. I think encorperating them in some way is super cute and sweet! Having them in your bridal party? I bit too much IMO.
It may be hard for them to walk down the aisle… Or host a shower/bachelorette party… Or be happy for you…
Maybe put them on the guest table with a note explaining them and/or you could get teddy bear cake toppers
Unfortunately I think a lot of people will judge you and I personally think this is very strange. Have human beings stand up for you at the alter and leave the bears to do their part to possibly reserve your seats at your table or as decoration.
Thanks everyone. I get the point.
I think they would be a super cute theme for your wedding. Like you could incorporate them in ways like the invitations and stuff.
They are really cute. Do incorporate them in the theme!
I’m not really sure how you could make them as part of your bridal party, someone would have to carry them….
Generally the Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man are the official witnesses to sign your marriage certificate.
But I think most people would have a hard time taking this seriously vs. just incorporating them in another way.
Gonna preface by saying I totally get it. I love teddy bears (alot), and Darling Husband gave me one a few years ago that we kinda think of as one of our children. He and the dog are our kids. I thought about having him at the wedding, to see his parents get married. But I decided against it. I don’t know, we adore that bear, but at the same time, we know he’s a teddy bear. If you want to incorporate them in the wedding, put them on the guestbook table with a little card explaining them. Having them in the bridal party is weird.
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