(Closed) I want kids so bad it is killing me! Anybody else?

posted 11 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
2965 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I know the feeling. I turn 28 this year and the ticking of the clock is getting louder and louder. We’re going to TRY to wait until after our first anniversary to start TTC because I want us to just enjoy married life for a while but it kills me a little inside to know that I’ll likely be 30 before I start having babies.

Post # 4
1123 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I know the feeling! Although I’m very young, my fiance and I get so excited and worked up about having kids at least once a month and then have to remind ourselves of all the things we want to and have to do first. Its a huge test to my patience but at least I know that by the time I’m ready to have kids, we’ll be so thrilled and they’ll be the most loved kids in the world

Post # 5
377 posts
Helper bee

I get baby fever all the time ( already have 1 girl).. when I see my baby saying she wants a baby sister..it kills me to wait!

Post # 6
74 posts
Worker bee

I have been clucky since I was two years old and my younger sister was born (apparently I used to tell everyone she was my baby and not my mum’s)

If it were up to me I would happily start having babies now but according to SO he thinks we should wait a few more years until we’re at least 25- he’s 22 and I’m 21 atm.

I agree that it’s the sensible thing to do but it kills me, I’m the type of girl who baby talks to my computer screen if there is an ad for baby clothes lol, I can’t help it I just feel it’s the reason I am here and what I’m meant to do.

Post # 7
3786 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@TrentsGirl:I could have written your post lol. Fiance and I want to wait about 2 years after we get married but I’m itching to have kids right now. I really feel like I am supposed to be a mother.

Post # 8
222 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I feel for you…it’s hard wanting babies when you know now isn’t the time!

I never wanted marriage or children. Slowly things became serious and I accepted one day I’d want to marry Mr.Cosmo and then slowly I realized maybe, one day, I’d have a baby with him. Then, fast forward another year and a half later and I want babes! Timing is wrong though. Fiancially unstable, unclear career path for me and an upcoming deployment for him.

We actually have our plan that he has already willingly talked about with our friends, 18 months. We’ll have saved money from his deployment and if all goes according to plan I’ll have a new full time job closer to home.

I know the time will fly and it will happen when it’s ready but omg…I’m just so eager all of a sudden!!

Post # 9
12326 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I hear ya.  I really wanted to be a young(er) parent and have kids by 25.  Well, thats kinda long gone.  We get married this summer, but now I’ve already accepted that I’m already past the ‘young’ point.   Though I sort of want to start trying right away, I plan on enjoying at least a few months of marriage time before TTC and so that if I do get pregnant quickly,  I won’t be more than 4-5 months in during our one more big 3-4 week vacation the following spring since it’ll probably be the last one like that we go on in a while once a kid is in the picture. 

Post # 10
489 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I hear ya girl!  I am like kicking myself for pushing our wedding so far in the future… we are both ready now!  But time will tell- that’s my motto:)

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