(Closed) I want my colleague to be my lover/ one night stand

posted 9 months ago in Intimacy
Post # 76
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448 posts
Helper bee

Do you like to boil rabbits?

Post # 77
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2692 posts
Sugar bee

Oh yes, I’m SO afraid of women like you stealing my man, that I require HR to provide us with their sexual harrassment policy before I even allow him to take a new job 🙄

Post # 78
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2235 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

mrsaime :  Oh yes, I’m SO afraid of women like you stealing my man, that I require HR to provide us with their sexual harrassment policy before I even allow him to take a new job 

 

Haha, yes, all the single guys can be sexually harassed- HR’s concern is whether or not the wives of the male employees feel threatened, not the emotional health and safety of its employees.

Post # 79
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

ilikeautumn :  Really?  That’s how you rationalize it?  Not, the fact that the way you were describing your desires outwardly as if the dude was a piece of meat and you were sharpening your knife and fork, that couldn’t possibly have given off creep vibes or seem, you know….inappropriate.  Like there aren’t bees who haven’t been in the exact same shoes as the object of your current desire and considered it unwanted behavior right? Nope, you went right to the “they must be irrationally jealous”.   

Like seriously….SMDH

And to give it another perspective.  Of course guys see it differently! News Flash…they’re not usually the ones put in the position of feeling like their job or reputation was on the line if they refused an advance!  75% of the time its men going after female co-workers or subordinates and its usually unwanted attention!  Why on Gods green earth would you risk your professional reputation over some guy you think is hot?   Here’s a question to ask yourself that should help you.  Who would have the most to lose if you went forward with your pursuit?  Hint: It won’t be him.

Post # 80
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

There’s a lot of self importance in ops follow ups. To actually think that other women are threatened if their husbands are not shielded by hr policies… threatened by women like op…

That’s a pretty self centered way of viewing things, that people are worried about what you do with your life.

Post # 81
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122 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: City, State

LOL yes we’re all SOOOO concerned you’re going to steal our partners. That’s logical wink

Post # 82
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2692 posts
Sugar bee

Tatum :  I’m SO thankful for those HR policies!! Otherwise, I’d really be stressing about some horny woman jumping on my man! I even made him turn down a job once because their sexual harassment policy wasn’t up to my high standards.

Post # 83
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9816 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

Well, you’ve found us out! We’re all just jealous and scared that you’ll steal our men folk. 

Pay no mind to the number of women on this form in non traditional/non monogamous relationships. They’re just super scared your feminine wiles will overpower their feeble minded men.

Im sure the men you polled had a totally different reaction, I don’t doubt that. I mean, you’re basically describing the plot of 70% of pornos.

Post # 84
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

slomotion :  it’s just the final step before flouncing. Ya’ll just jealous, I’m out haters!

Post # 85
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846 posts
Busy bee

Objectification 100

Post # 86
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6657 posts
Bee Keeper

You make me laugh. 

You have to decide–is your job more important or do you really just want to get laid. Seems to me it’s easier to find a different sex partner than it is to find a different job.

Post # 87
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Buzzing bee

I call BS.

I spend over half the year working in my company’s European offices.  This would clearly be seen as sexual harassment.  I’ve seen people take hits to their career for ‘fishing off the company pier’ when a relationship ends badly or when they were just trying to find casual sex partners at work. 

Post # 88
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper

 I almost think that some women may worry that their boyfriends or husbands may come across a woman like me in their workplaces and if they’re not properly shielded from her advances by robust HR policies that the woman would go ahead and make a move on their husbands…some of whom may not say ‘no’ to her….just a thought.

What the fuck?

Post # 89
Hostess
9630 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Chicago, IL

In the infamous words of Mouse, “this thread has run its course, and I’m closing it now.”

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