(Closed) I want to be a better Bridesmaid!

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I think if you just told her what you told us that would be a great start!  😀

Post # 4
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105 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

If you’re good with layouts, maybe she would like help with the programs or the menus?  If you have similar taste in music, maybe you could recommend a song list for the prelude and cocktail hour?  I’m sure she would love to know that you are willing to help, and I bet she will find some project that you can help with.  She’s lucky to have you!

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

Well lots of people from out of state are in weddings (missing showers and parties before hand).  Are you saying that you don’t want to be in the wedding?  Or still being a Bridesmaid or Best Man but making up for missing some Bridesmaid or Best Man duties by making up for it at the wedding?  I think it’s sweet to offer up extra work to make her life easier at the wedding.

Is there a list of guests she could forward to call, to those who haven’t rsvp’d?

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2018

Sometimes having a girl who is far away from it all to vent to is the best Bridesmaid or Best Man duty ever. I have a Bridesmaid or Best Man in Connecticut and listening to me rant about Future Mother-In-Law and Absentee Future Father-In-Law is way better than coming to my shower. Let her know you are there to listen to illogical wedding rants. It’s needed!

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