- 6 years ago
- Wedding: October 2016
My and my dh have been together for almost 14 years we have been together thouhg many difficult times, now things are much better, we have some $ saved, he had won some money on the lottery(twice last year about 10k total) he resolved a legal problem that he had on the past, one one his child is coming to this country this year(with my help). Dont get my wrong I am very happy that everything is turning good in his favor. The problem is this , that we are already married(court wedding) we never had a party. and my dream is having a real wedding(party) with family and friends. He is not opposed to this idea but he says I like to waste money. We both have some money save over 24k, plus the income that is coming also we both work, so we can save some money. I just want to have a low cost wedding 5k max and he thinks that is alot. We can spend that money but he refuses. I know int he past we could have not afforded a wedding but now we can. I am being selfish? If he knows this is important for me why can he contribute to my happiness. It feels like he wants me to always help him to achieve things, and i always had, I had always put everybody plans and dreams first, why can I have a dream of my own?