(Closed) I Want to call off my wedding

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 30
2021 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015 - Ruby Princess

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vee1980:  cruise wedding here as well. much easier to plan. i seriously had bad anxiety when pricing venues after our engagement. i could not have done it the “normal” way.

Good luck, OP. It will be worth it! One thing at a time.

Post # 31
84 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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schoening22:  Um, yes. It’s a stressful pain in the ass, even choosing the simpliest things is a hassle and I feel like I’m not getting enough done compared to everyone else on my month board. Fiance tells me not to stress so much but I mean– its a lot to do!

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sunshinedaydream:  You’re going above and beyond for everyone you’re inviting to your wedding. I would send that bill straight back to them too. How can someone complain about costs when you’re subsidizing part of the trip for them!?

Good luck to all of the lovely, overly stressed brides on this board! We’re all in this together– and we all still have the option to elope!

Post # 32
608 posts
Busy bee

Yea its not fun AT ALL lol. Even dress shopping, the first time was fun but after I got over that “I’m in a wedding dress moment” that was stressful too. I try to just chill because no one cares as much as you and the groom do. No one in my friends has had a large wedding. They’ve all done courthouse with very small reception type things. Ours isn’t elaborate but its about a 10k ceremony/reception with 200 people so its making me really nervous since I have nothing to compare it to. 

Post # 33
252 posts
Helper bee

I was expecting this to be a vent about a horrible fiance who fucked up.

If the planning process is stressing you out too much, just elope or do something super low-key with only a few friends and family members present.

Post # 34
6386 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

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schoening22:  Have your fiance plan it and don’t worry about the details.  If the wedding truly isn’t a big deal to you, there’s no reason to stress yourself out about it.

Post # 35
3053 posts
Sugar bee

I’ll admit I’ve thought about just going to the courthouse a few times lol. I’ve gotten to the point where I am extremely blunt when people want to whine about something wedding related. The latest is the Best Man whinging about having to wear a vest with the suit in summer… ‘it’ll be too hot’. Well duh, that’s the fucking point.. you wear the shirt and vest and ditch the jacket if it’s hot *facepalm*

If your Fiance is the one who *has* to have the wedding, tell him he needs to be more active in planning it!

Post # 36
24 posts
  • Wedding: April 2016

I’m in the same boat! I have said multiple times this week that I wish we could just elope. Best thing to do is give the reigns to someone else (assuming you can trust that person’s taste). That’s helped me anyway. We are having a small wedding with 50-60 guests, no wedding party. My mom is super crafty so I’ve given her permission to do whatever she wants. Still, little decisions like what type of dinnerware to use is stressful for me. AGH!

You’re marrying the love of your life. That’s the most important thing. 🙂

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