(Closed) I want to cancel the wedding…

posted 12 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

You won’t look silly in your dress at a restaurant! We are having an afternoon wedding and serving lunch lake-side afterwards. We plan on going out to dinner with our wedding party and parents later that night, and I’m surely going to wear my dress! You may want to look into a restaurant that has a small private dining room that you and your dinner party can use. It would be quieter and more intimate that way. That’s what we are doing. Good luck!

Post # 34
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2010

It is your day and you should do whatever you really want.  Don”t have nay regrets!

Post # 36
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694 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am happy to hear you are doing what you want and feeling better abut the situation!  Since you are still having a wedding (although in a smaller capacity), I wouldn’t worry about your Future Mother-In-Law.  She should be happy that she will be there to witness the wedding.  Keep us updated!

Post # 37
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2011

Bee Bee–

Glad it is going to work out. And as much worry as you put into the fear from your family, see none of it was worth it. Your family will stand behind you in whatever you want. That means if you want to go and get married at a courthouse this week and do the whole wedding in the church in September I am sure they will be thrilled. 

Glad to hear the weight has been lifted off your shoulders, now go and enjoy that boy and have a good day at work, and maybe try and get some sleep, that might help ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 39
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

Congrats! I was just reading through this thread & just saw your latest response.  I’m so glad you talked it over with your Dad and your Fiance. I’m sure everything will be spectacular, you’ll have a chance to honor your mother and you’ll be able to have a wonderful wedding day!

Enjoy being surrounded by your family & people who love you – your Future Mother-In-Law will get over it.

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@Bee Bee – Some people are crazy, I know!  Even if she gives you grief over it, be happy in the fact that you are doing what YOU want.  You won’t regret this decision, even if she doesn’t take it well, and you have a wonderful Fiance to spend your life with!  

And as oboist said – go get some sleep!  You are probably exhausted!

Post # 42
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Bee Bee, I’m glad that you have decided to do what will make you happiest.  And my mother and I were having dinner at a restaurant one night when a bride (and her groom) walked in in their full wedding attire and then headed for a room in the back.  We thought it was sweet.  I hope your wedding brings you much happiness from now on! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 43
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Helper bee

BeeBee, I’m so pleased you followed your heart! 

Sometimes we hesitate to make hard decisions because we are afraid of hurting others.  It’s funny, because most loved ones want what is best for us and what makes us happy.  I’ll be sending good thoughts your way and please know that you have lots of support as you share your wishes with your Future Mother-In-Law. 

(((Hugs)))

Post # 44
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Worker bee

I am so happy for you both. Be proud of your decision — and it’s the right way to start off your life together. Pls keep us posted!

Post # 46
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Buzzing bee

I’m so happy for you Bee Bee!!!  I’m glad things have worked out!

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