(Closed) I want to cry or punch someone

posted 6 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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2023 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m sorry that youre going through this.  I cant even imagine.  Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Post # 4
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2401 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@aalliep:  I have never gone through a mc but I just wanted to say I am so sorry): HUGS!!! We are here for you!

Post # 5
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242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@aalliep:  I am SO sorry you have to go through this! 🙁 It can’t be easy, so please vent all you need. We are here for you! (((HUGS)))

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I have never mc, but I know where you are. When I was 12 wks pregnant, we woke up to a fire that gutted our apartment. We lost EVERYTHING! Exactly 1 week after, I woke up gushing blood. I went to the hospital and it took them over an hour to find my baby. Why? Because they weren’t scanning my uterus. They were scanning a tumour so large it that it had pushed my 12 week baby up under my breast. They told me then that I would lose him. They called in a chaplain to comfort me and a female doctor to explain my options. I refused to terminate. I went home and bled through my pregnancy. Every day I cried. I never knew what was gonna happen. I never wanted to move for fear of hurting him or losing him. I did make it to 38 wks and was truly blessed. My point is, you will get through this. You will carry on. You will have days you don’t want to get out of bed and days u just stay there. It doesn’t feel like it now, but it will somehow get easier. Mourn as you need to mourn. Talk to someone and get out your feelings out. My prayers are with you.

 

 

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@aalliep:  *Hugs* you’ll get through this! If it helps, my mom had a miscarriage but has 2 healthy daughters now. It’s ok to be angry.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@aalliep:  Been there… STILL doing that. My friend just brought her baby in to work and I was so ANNOYED by it that I got up and left. I found out I was pregoo last Christmas, and Had a DNC on VDay. So i already know Im goig to have a bad Christmas. If you need someone to talk to, pm me!

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m sorry you’re going through this 🙁

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

*hugs*  I am so sorry.  

Post # 11
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1938 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

BIG HUG! I am so sorry! Do want you need and want for yourself! My thoughts are with you!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m sorry you have to go through this.  I can’t imagine what it’s like, but I hope for you it gets better with time.  You know it’s not your fault.  You are strong and you can overcome this.

Post # 13
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2152 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m sorry this has happend. You will forever have a little angel watching over you. Don’t lose hope.  

Post # 14
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1301 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@aalliep:  I am so sorry. I wish I had words to tell you how I feel for you. I hope time helps you find some solace and that your able to drawn strength from the support & love of your husband. I’m thinking of you. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Big hugs to you. It’s very hard xxx

Post # 16
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586 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m so sorry. I know others who also had a mc and I’ve seen the effects of what it does emotionally to the couples. I hope that you will feel better about it soon though what you are feeling is very normal. If it makes you feel better you can punch me Wink

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