- KimH14
- 8 years ago
- Wedding: August 2010
Ok so i wanted to have a party for us but i didnt want the whole bachelor bachelorette party thing because we arent really the party type and the whole strip club thing defently wouldnt ever happen because we dont believe in that kinda of stuff it truly disgust us both. We look at it as we are still together and we should be respectful of each other and that any sex related stuff should on be between 2 people and not the whole world are cit. Problem is which kinda isnt a problem but Fiance best man wants to throw his something like that even though he knows how we are i mean we dont even watch movies that have anything sexual related in them and the bm knows that and he just thinks that as he said” lighten up for a day” but truly how can you tell someone to lighten up on there belief thats like saying if your a believer in something truly just say fuck it for a day just cause someone else says you should because they do. I dont think so not in my book but what do you think ? And another thing what kinda party should we throw kinda a family get to gether/friends to but a party for both of us at once.
Sorry its so long it has been upseting me that his Bridesmaid or Best Man wont just shut the fuck up and accept us for us lol sorry for my french.