- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2013
Ahhh! I am awful! So my boyfriend and I went looking for rings back in September. I found the perfect ring! It is a round sapphire with a diamond halo and diamonds all around the band. GORGEOUS!
Anyway.. he was supposed to sell his motorcycle- his idea, not mine. I actually don’t want him to sell it because I know how much he likes it. Anyway.. turns out noone is willing to pay his asking price. So I figured, okay.. maybe it’ll be a tax return ring. Which even though I really don’t want to wait until April, that’s fine. Well we were talking last night (I have NO patience) and I said I really wanted it. I also hinted I didn’t want to wait until April, but knew that’s how things were going to go down. Our finances are pretty much intertwined so there’s no way he could be storing away money for the ring without me noticing it. He was laughing at me and said maybe he took out an extra loan on his truck. (His truck is almost paid off, but he’s saying he borrowed more money from the company to buy the ring). He didn’t confirm anything, but he made it sound like that’s what he did! So then I was like well is it going to be before April? Or before January? And he said probably not before January and I said well, if you have it, then why can’t it be before January? So then he said he was maybe planning something and he’s more sly than I give him credit for. He was laughing at me the entire time because he thought it was funny how crazy I was getting.
I am so impatient and I really hope I don’t ruin this. He even got a phone call today and told the person he’d call them later. I asked him who it was and he said noone. I asked again and he said you really want to know? And I said no. I really hope I have enough self control to not ruin how he is planning on proposing. But seriously, if he has it, why would he wait 3 months?! ahh I just want to be engaged! 🙂 I feel like I’m bursting at the seams here!! Okay, now here’s what I need input on.. to NOT look for it. I mean, it’s gotta be in the apartment, right? Why would he keep something like that in his truck? And would it totally just ruin it if I found it? I wouldn’t tell him and I know what it looks like. Ughh I am awful!!