Post # 1
Every Tuesday night is date night, And every tuesday night at this really nice honky tonk restaurant has two step tuesdays. It’s free to go to so we go to dance, have a good time and get a little exerise in as well. We couldn’t get a parking spot at the door like we usually do. Usually we show up earlier. This time we had to park in the rear. We had to walk around to the front and that’s where I saw it.
In the back of this restaurant was a nice secluded grassy area surrounded by tall trees with low hanging branches. It’s a country style restaurant but not the cheap old western kind of feel it’s country with class. Anyways there was an opening where you can walk back there and see it. I walked back into the enterance pretending I was trying to see if I could go through that way to get the restaurant.
I didn’t know if he would catch on or not so I quickly turned around and walked around to the front. Before we got to the front door he said. “I wonder how much it costs to have a reception here.” I shrugged my shoulders and replied “I don’t know.” Outside I played it cool but on the inside I was jumping for joy.
After that the subject of the wedding only came up once when I made a joke, saying that we should have the wedding here on Tuesday, seeing how they have Two stepping every tuesday. That joke made him laugh not roll his eyes, not groan but laugh!
These are the kind of nights that make waiting fun!
Post # 3
@Batsygirl: It’s always a thrill for me when he brings up anything wedding-related first. Means you’re on the same page.
Cute story, sounds like you had agreat night. I love that he brought it up and you acted like it was no big deal lol… Who knows, you may end up getting married there eventually 🙂
Post # 4
My Boyfriend or Best Friend brings up comments along the same lines like this, and honestly, as much as I want to marry him, I play it cool. Sometimes I wonder if that is the right way to react, I WANT him to know I want to marry him. And if I play it cool, its like I’m acting like its no big deal. Oh well, this is a womens mind for ya. Haha! Congrats, I do love when they guys say stuff like that!
Post # 6
I think it’s all on how well you know your SO. Believe me he knows I want to get married, and he gets pressured by everyone else he knows to marry me. I know he wants to get married too. I also know if I don’t play it cool, I won’t be able to control myself, and completely annoy him with it, and he won’t bring up weddings for a long time. I just don’t want to put any pressure on him.
It kind of worked. When ever he brings up living together that usually entails marriage. He won’t let me move in without marrying him first. Yesterday he was saying that if it wasn’t for the fact that we’d be living in sin, he would have me move in in a heart beat. (It’s a good sign to me.)
It’s a very delicate game you have to play. I don’t thinks its fair, but when he ready or he can afford it he’ll come around