(Closed) I was all upset…now I JUST.DON'T.CARE.

posted 6 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@sehrler:  I have such insecurities about my arms from loosing weight that I hated the thought about wearing a strapless dress and all wedding gowns are strapless just about. My mom made me a beautiful bolero and I felt secure and happy. 

I am sure you will find soemthing that will make you feel comfortable and secure on that day. Screw everyone else. 

Post # 4
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4518 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Congrats on losing so much weight!! That’s amazing. 

I know how you feel — sometimes I look in the mirror and freak out over something that only I am fixating on. Others never see these things that we think are so obvious and terrible, first of all. Second of all — everyone in your life loves you (I assume :-)) exactly as you are. So if you have some back skin hanging over your dress, big whoop — let it hang! 

Post # 5
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9549 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

WOO HOO!!!!! Congrats on the weight loss and don’t stress if you’re not a stick. Your fiance probably doesn’t want to marry a stick anyway. You’ll look awesome and, what’s more important, you’ll be confident which is the most sexy and beautiful thing of all!!!!

Post # 7
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2224 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@sehrler:  High five!! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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901 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - Rock Hill Country Club, Manorville NY

It sounds like you’ve found the right attitude! If anybody is whispering behind the bride’s back ( no pun intended, I swear!) on her wedding day, whether she’s 100 or 500 lbs, they’re the ones with a problem, not the bride!

Do you have before and after pics? I’m determined to lose about 80 lbs before my wedding next year and I would love some (th)insperation!

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

You look amazing!!!!! Good work on losing the weight!! I wonder if some of your motivation will rub off on me via message board? No? It doesn’t work like that? Damn.

Post # 11
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728 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

wow congrats on the weight loss! you look amazing ๐Ÿ™‚ and your dress looks fabulous on you! 

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@sehrler:  wow—you look fantastic!

Post # 13
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134 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

you look AWESOME!!!! way to go with losing the weight! Such an inspiration!

and I’m with @CorgiTales:  – can you send some of that motivation over the web to me too please???

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

damn look at those collar bones!!!! you look amazing!  and i like the gold threading in your dress.  

Post # 16
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8882 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

You look FANTASTIC! Congrats on your weight loss success!

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