(Closed) I was an intelligent educated adult and now I am worried about pens

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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6892 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Okay. Step away from the wedding planning. 😉 Jk.

I think we all have days or hours or weeks (I guess it depends) where the most seemingly mundane thing can become an obsession. And damn google for feeding into it! :p

Post # 4
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2154 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Today my mother and I had a 2-hour convo about the exact wording on the invitations.

Then we had tons of margaritas and laughed about it. 

The second part was the most important part. Just have a sense of humour about it.

Post # 5
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Totally happened to me. It made it so difficult to finish out the semester when I got engaged! I called it Bridal Brain, and it can still take over everything once in a while (we have had a 2 yr engagement). But it’s getting close now! And of course, the closer it gets, the more I procrastinate on stuff 🙂

Post # 6
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654 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I had the opposite problem – wedding planning alerted me to the fact that I am (apparently) already an alien.  I think it’s actually made me more sane.  If I needed a pen for my guest book (which I don’t because I’m not doing a guest book), I’d find one in my purse. 

I’m the odd one out, though, I already know.  I had to start a blog to vent about how not-crazy I am.  😛

Post # 7
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2580 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I feel the same way sometimes. It’s amazing the things I never thought I would care about until they were presented to me as decisions I needed to make–suddenly I find myself developing strong opinions about details I never even knew existed!

I still have a long time to go, so I’m trying not to get too caught up in it. I try to get my fill of wedding stuff online so I don’t become one of those people who can only talk about the wedding.

@Beluga: That seems like the best way to go about it to me!  As long as I can maintain a sense of humor and stay grounded in a reality where my choice of centerpiece vases and save the date designs aren’t all that important, I think it will be okay!

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