(Closed) I was doing so well!

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) I didn’t quite lose it on not being engaged, I lost it on not being home.

Post # 4
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22 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I lost it on Thanksgiving not being engaged.  So I can totally understand.  He’s had the ring since August and I thought for SURE that we’d be official by the holidays.  It’s frustrating.  Thankfully he got the hint and we were for Christmas. 

Maybe you’re guy will propose by New years.  There’s still hope for that.

Post # 5
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3709 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I didn’t have a meltdown about becoming engaged but I DEFINITELY had a meltdown about not being able to get married this week like we planned. Eventually I pulled my little self together and started working on a solution but it was touch and go for a while…LOL.

Post # 6
Hostess
18644 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Poor thing!  I hope that you start to feel better and don’t lose it anymore!

Post # 7
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603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I didnt because Im not expecting it til Boyfriend or Best Friend goes into the military..but one of my best friends starting bawling Christmas night to her Boyfriend or Best Friend about it! Thankfully they talked and it turned out ok 🙂

Post # 8
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131 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Not over the holidays, but I had a complete meltdown in Oct, and I even broke up with my Boyfriend or Best Friend then. He called three days straight and was quite persistant about the two of us getting back together.

Post # 9
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665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Don’t feel bad… I have many meltdowns of varying degrees. 🙂  Especially around family events (his rents call me the FDIL) or when people ask when it will be official… sometimes it can feel emotionally unbearable to know that it is UNofficial. We’re both ready, but money stands in the way. Thankfully, he too is patient and understanding. 🙂 Take a deep breath, the feeling shall pass, but don’t be surprized if it rears its ugly head again!

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