- 5 years ago
Nope, nope nope
Nope, nope nope
Horseradish: I was thinking that! Might not be a bad idea.
Zelda: To be honest I think MY money is what got me dumped. She has been very distant with me since I moved jobs for a larger salary and didnt congratulate me. She is very jealous that I bought a house while she still rents and there was a total stranger at the hen party who had seen my photos of a Caribeaan cruise from 18 months ago! On the way in to the 5 star hotel for the hen party her sister said “Youd be accustomes to places like this wouldnt you?”
Im not rich, I work extrememly hard and have a defined career path… Im the one who leftn my country to be able to accelerate my career and Ive never once told anyone how much I earn nor have I flaunted it. Im like everyone else, after mortgage, bills and car is paid, I dont have that much left!
I wouldn’t even attend the wedding that is just me.
I would have been done with her after 4 flights for a dress and then not even seeing you ! Good riddance to a crappy friendship. Seems like your the only one working for this friendship.
Wow wow wow. I have seen some crazy stuff on the bee but your “friend” takes the cake in being such an entitled B*tch. Granted there are always 2 sides to a story, but holy shit you purchased FOUR flights in addition to trying to make it to this dress fitting?!
I’m sorry, but if I had a friend who took off from work and purchased FOUR+ flights to make it to dress fittings etc. and I couldn’t get my shit together to make your trip worthwhile, the onus and blame is definitely on the bride and NOT you.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I tried to give your friend the benefit of her side of things, but it’s very hard to imagine what “terrible horrible” thing you could have done that warranted her selfish and ungrateful attitude.
She is NOT your friend. Stop blaming yourself and allowing yourself to be stepped all over like a doormat. This is just a wedding, she is not the frickin’ Queen of England and isn’t entitled to shit just because she’s getting married.
My god what a POW.
With such a good mom, and boyfriend, you will be okay. If it were me I think I would simply make other plans for myself on the weekend of the wedding and not go.
I hope someday soon she regrets the way she treated you. Over a dress!
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