(Closed) I was her BM, but I kicked her out of my BP

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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2255 posts
Buzzing bee

Etiquette dictates that you shouldn’t kick out Bridal Party members or disinvite people to your wedding. But after reading the ‘will work for wedding’ sign thing? Yeah, you get special dispensation dealing with that self-serving twat. 

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  MrsYokiman.
  • This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 3
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3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

MrsYokiman:  

Where’s your meme for this? I love your well timed memes. 

edee224:  

This is a special situation. You had every right to cut your ex friend out of your wedding. 

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2016

You definitely did the right thing! I was in a “friends” wedding in October and I decided in February that she was going to have nothing to do with my wedding. Unfortunately her Darling Husband and my Fiance are good friends so she will still be invited, sigh. 

Post # 6
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3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

MrsYokiman:  

Thank you! All is right with the world now. 

The last meme reminds me of what is going on with me today. FML. 

Post # 7
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2255 posts
Buzzing bee

amiona:  I hear you! I’ve had plenty of those days for sure. Hope yours gets better and if not take advice from the second meme and pop some Xanax while giving the people in your life who are causing drama a big ol’ F-You! 😉

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  MrsYokiman.
Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

MrsYokiman:  

Thanks babe. I don’t like to take pills for anxiety; I smoke weed instead.

Thank God for medical marijuana.

I’ve been trying to smoke less so I am more antsy than usual. 

Are you feeling better today?

  • This reply was modified 5 years, 1 month ago by  amiona.
Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

amiona:  Yes–finally going back to work tomorrow! Thanks–so sweet of you to ask!

Hey, whatever it takes to calm you down and help you deal with negativity and drama and whatever else is going on–hopefully tomorrow will be a better day. 🙂

Post # 10
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3277 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

MrsYokiman:  

Glad you feel better. 

Post # 11
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Helper bee

Sorry i dont understand the will work for wedding sign? could someone explain what that means? She seems extremely entitled and not a very good friend. I think you were right to kick her out of Bridal Party but perhaps not the wedding? Maybe if you mend bridges she could be invited to the wedding but she sounds hard work. x

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