(Closed) I was kicked out of my friends wedding because she thought i would ruin her pix

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 4
59 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Your so-called friend sounds horrifying!  I’m sorry that she saw fit to abuse your friendship like that, and I certainly hope you are reimbursed for the dress! 

Post # 6
110 posts
Blushing bee

I am very sorry for what you’ve had to deal with. I wouldn’t expect them to actually pay you back for the dress but just stay out of their drama and be the bigger person. 

Post # 7
228 posts
Helper bee

sounds like she did you a favor. 

Post # 8
3054 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Wow…. I am very sorry that you had to deal with this. I guess this is what you would call a Bridezilla, I can’t say I understand that sort of behavior. I was not that way at all while getting married. I saw my wedding as being for my Family and Friends, not just about me. If I wanted it to be just about me, I would have traveled to Italy and married myself.

You should do what you can to make the bride happy, but this is really pushing it. You should not have to feel like crap and you are not her personal slave. Forcing you to walk down with your ex?? wtf??!! Totally inconsiderate. I would have dropped out and ended that friendship along time ago. There is no excuse for that at all.  Do not beat yourself up over it…. its her loss. You were a great bridesmaid.

Post # 9
6414 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

Omg how awful 🙁 I’m sorry. I wish I knew what to say but my mind is just blown.

Post # 10
121 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Oh my goodness, you sound like you actually got rid of a very toxic friend.  I would drop the dress and shoes off, get my money and then never talk to them again.  That whole family sounds insane.

Post # 11
831 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

If she treatEd you like that she doesn’t deserve you as a friend. You shouldn’t be asked to change something about the way you look to be in a wedding. I think you are better off without this girl in your life.

Post # 12
209 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

WoW!!! You really do not need friends like that! That is beyond bridezilla! I totally think you did the right thing, and I understand that this is her day but if your hair is short, then your hair is short, If she actually cared about you as a friend, then she wouldn’t have acted the way she did. The fact that your self esteem was lowered because of her calling you “trashy” is disgusting on her part. I wish you all the best in the next wedding you are in but you do not need a so called friend like that! 

Post # 13
237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Holy cow. Your friend sounds horrible! I understand things can get stressful before a wedding but how she acted is definitely uncalled for. I’m sorry you are going through this. You did nothing wrong and have done all she has asked so I really hope you are reimbursed. A real friend should not say you looked trashy and tacky let alone end a friendship due to hair style. Hugs to you!

Post # 14
1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Facebook strikes again.Undecided


This chick sounds like she’s about twelve years old and throwing tantrums left and right. Go over there, drop off your dress and shoes, get your money and don’t even say a word.

Post # 15
1325 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

the most unclassy thing about this whole situation is the bride

I didnt realize friendships came so cheap these days. Im sorry she didnt realize how great of a friend you were to put up with all of that.

Heres to you! Honestly, forget it. Its not worth your time.

Post # 16
955 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

oh. my. god. this girl sounds wretched. 

please do not waste another moment being upset about this girl or her terrible mother.

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