(Closed) I was kicked out of my friends wedding because she thought i would ruin her pix

posted 10 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 152
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

RhondaS– SERIOUSLY GO CHECK OUT THE MOMS POST….I THINK THE OTHER BEES HAVE MORE THAN HELPED WITH THE CRAZY MOM AND BRIDEZILLA!

Post # 153
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6414 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I want to see the dress :/

Post # 154
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433 posts
Helper bee

Post pics of the dress!

Post # 156
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412 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@Katnisseverdeen:  I highly doubt they would want her there now. 😛

Depends on how pissed I am, if I was OP, maybe I will wear the dress, take a picture and post it on FB now so any mutual friends they still share together will see it and RUIN the surprise for her friend’s perfect wedding haha…

Post # 157
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1736 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Lammky: I like that idea too…. We are some aggressive bees… Lol

Post # 158
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@imalittlebirdie:    I can’t imagine what’s the mom and the bride’s face would be like once they see those pics on FB! haha 

Teach them a lesson for treating others like crap. 

 

All joking aside, OP, we do want to see the dress hehe 🙂

 

 

Post # 159
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010 - Savannah, GA

First of all, your sister can tag whoever she wants to tag in her own pictures, and no one can tell her she can’t. It’s none of that bride’s busines, nor her mother’s business, who your sister tags. 

Second, if her mother wants to go back on her verbal agreement to buy your dress and shoes, then she doesn’t get the dress.  Wait until after the wedding, and sell it on Craigslist so they can’t buy it for another bridesmaid to wear. 

Third, your finals are a 100 times more important than them getting the dress. Good for you for standing up for what is most important.

Fourth…well, she needs an attitude adjustment, and it would appear she is not as good of a friend as you thought. 

I’m sorry you had to go through that.  I hope you are able to let go of the hurt and move on. I wouldn’t let her thoughtlessness, because she no longer has any power over your time. 

Post # 160
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110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I didn’t read all the posts but I have to say – if I were you after getting over the insulted part I would be relieved I wasn’t a part of this narcissitic BS.

When people behave like that, they don’t deserve the people like you who tolerate their crap; I would keep the dress and shoes and rock them to the next event in high style. Screw her…

Post # 161
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167 posts
Blushing bee

Wow, talk about cray cray

Post # 162
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185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would do a “trash the dress” photoshoot.  You know?  Like some brides do these days?  Except with your Bridesmaid or Best Man dress.  And post that ish everywhere.  

That is really low.  I wouldn’t actually do it.  Maybe.  

Post # 163
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390 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

my question is how were u ever friends with her?!?! she shoulds AWFUL

Post # 164
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Momofbridein question:  [Post moderated for name calling] No freaking wonder your daughter is like she is. You are a grown freaking women and u are posting on this site bickering eith someone half your age im sure. It’s pathetic you need to grow up. i can’t believe this girl put up with you and your daughter for this long! 

Post # 165
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

And i still don’t understnad why your sister can’t tag you in a picture?? you should make it your profile picture!! haha

Post # 166
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’ll be totally honest I read the MOB post first and thought OMG (I couldn’t read all of them but got the jist)… how terrible then read this one and it was totally clear!!! I am so sorry that a bride put you through that!! I would never tell my BM’s that they coudn’t do something… my Maid/Matron of Honor actually said how do you want our hair, my response ‘whatever looks good on you both, you tell me what you want’

I think it is terrible that she is treating you like this an only a couple of days before her wedding. I agree with alot of the other posts on here, forget her and move on!

(I do like the idea of the burning of the BM’s dress idea)

As they say ‘You call a friend up and say you are in jail’ a good friend says how’d you get there a true ‘best’ friend is sitting beside you!!

MOB-sorry but I’m on the bm’s side… and my mum can be as protective as you, but she knows what battles I need help fighting and which one’s I should be fighting on my own… this one is one for your daughter, if she was truely a friend to the bm she would own up to the words said and come clean as to what is really bothering her and apoligize!

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