(Closed) I was sure it wasn’t going to happen to me…

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Ack!  Definitely time for some relaxation/pampering…  Hopefully, post-pampering, the anxiety dreams will be a thing of the past for you. 

I’m wondering when these dreams usually start – are you close to your date?  We’re five months out, and aside from an occasional panic, I’ve been ok so far.  Hopefully, this isn’t a harbinger of things to come!

 

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

Just remember, it’s only a dream!!!  🙂

My nightmares started about 5 months out, but they’ve actually gotten less frequent (1 every week or 2 instead of a few per week) as I get closer to my date (1 month away!)

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2008

those nasty wedding nightmares get you in the end 😉  At least it was just a dream,  and not the real thing.    I’ve had a few wedding nightmares,  none recently,  but back around the 4 month mark I had quite a few (about the same time I was doing my DIY invites, go figure)

 

Only 10 days left? Yippee!!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

hang in there! 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

I’ve been having them since before we were engaged. =( Hang in there, massages and good sleep works wonders!

Post # 9
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Worker bee

We’re almost exactly a year away and I’ve already had around 5. I keep having a recurring one that my moms boyfriend lets his pet tiger loose during the ceremony in the chapel (not that he actually has a pet tiger…) and he scares off all the guests.

I also keep having ones about my dress unravelling as I walk down the aisle, and my eyelashes falling out right before the ceremony. But then again I’ve always had my fair share of nightmares.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Wow, that is a crazy nightmare.  My nightmares started about a month ago.  Mine are all zombie related — my fiance loves zombie books and movies.  In my dreams the guests become zombies and the wedding party has to make a run for it.  Somehow we end up on my school campus locked in the gym.  Ugh.  I can’t wait for the nightmares to end.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2008

I just had my first nightmare and I’m 3 months away..

 I dreamed that I had decided at the last minute to move my wedding from 7PM to 11am and nobody would get off the couch and into the car! I was going house to house saying, "come on you guys, the wedding is in a half hour! Let’s move!" and they would not move.

 Finally, I guess I gave up on them and decided to try on dresses. I was deciding between a shiny blue ball gown, a traditional big white dress, and a RED gorgeous flamenco style dress. Which do you think I went with – that’s right – the RED.

I woke up like "what did I eat last night?"

I think I’m struggling because I am not in LOVE with my current dress. I can tell you the long story another time of how the dress and I came to be. I’m not planning to dye it red, but I might get it altered. significantly?

(sigh) I wonder what the other dreams will be like? I’m not a bridezilla at all, but I am a woman of anxiety. For. Reals.

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