(Closed) I was threaten by someone about my wedding

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Well I certainly hope she was just being sarcastic…but either way that comes off very rude. Some people have no manners

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I would have burst out laughing! Was she serious?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee

You best believe that the DOC will be checking folks in. Or is she going to lie about who she is and steal someone’s escort cards? I read that some guests did that at a bee’s wedding. Dang!

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@KevinsWife: Wow. Some people hey? If the opportunity presents itself I would just make it clear to her that you are having an intimate wedding and that your venue has limited space so you won’t be able to accommodate her but that you hope she will be there in spirit.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

Ummm, it might sound harsh but I’d be springing the extra couple hundred dollars to keep this crazy at bay. If you can’t “keep her away” from your wedding because she just feels so damn connected to it, she’ll probably imagine up an invitation for a plus one…or four.

Seriously, if you think she’ll do it get some security on the case at your venue. Crazy women, ugh. I hope she doesn’t show up and crash your wedding >_<

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

WTF?  I don’t know what I would think if someone said that to me. I would hope she was being sarcastic.  If she wasn’t, I guess she’ll be sitting on the floor because I won’t have a spot for her. The other thing you could do is  to be prepared and ask a family member or a friend or if you have a DOC, to put her on the ‘watch list’.  So if they do see her at your wedding, to tell her to leave.  Sucks you have to deal with this but maybe she shouldn’t have said something like that.  Seriously, who says that??!?

Post # 10
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Buzzing bee

Thats so crazy. Regardless of whether she was being sarcastic or not, I would make sure she didn’t come after that.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

How would she even know where/when it is?  Is she close to other guests?

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@mightywombat: I’m sure she can figure it out. She sounds like a crazy stalker-type person.

Make sure security/your DOC/whoever knows to turn away uninvited guests.

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