(Closed) I Was Waiting Last V Day Too

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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23 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Sweetie Pie, how long have you been with your b/f?  If this is any consolation, I waited for 7 1/2 years…after multiple times of me mentioning something he told me a revelation, “The more you talk about it, the more it makes me not want to, I will ask when I’m ready, I’m not ready yet.” So I put up and shut up, and that was last year…we’re finally getting married this September. (we’ve lived together for 6 1/2 years at that point) I’d say 10 years would be my limit!!!

Post # 5
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645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Hey Sweetie Pie, I’m in almost the same exact place as you. June will be three years. I made an agreement with my manfriend that I won’t bring it up another year because he wants it to be a surprise. But he promised if he hadn’t done it by next January, then he would tell me exactly when. I’m keeping this termage as loose as possible though, I don’t want to get my hopes too high if I’m thinking more than he. 

But it sucks don’t it?

Post # 7
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1595 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It will be 3 years for me in April. I know he bought the ring though so now its just a matter of gettin down on that knee.

Post # 8
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364 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I’m newer to waiting but I have a 5 year timeline so while I can’t empathize yet I certainly hope your man gets it together.

Post # 9
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302 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I waited 4 1/2 years.

Maybe you should talk to him, just ask him if he thinks that you two will get married at some point without putting any timelines on it.

After 4 years I was ready to give up but I love him and he was so good to me so I decided to stay with him and last October he proposed.

You just need to have patience.

Post # 11
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51 posts
Worker bee

It is hard waiting! I’m only on year two, but he accidently blurted out that he plans on us being engaged before our friends’ wedding that’s in October, but I think now knowing that makes the waiting worse. But then again who knows if it will even happen then. I’m trying to not mention it and just be patient but it is so hard!

Post # 12
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3772 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I feel like I’ve been waiting forever too… My bf/unofficialfi says that he’s waiting for the right moment and the money for a ring.. On my v-day card it said I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you 😀 So idk I completely understand the torture. I know it’s coming.. just don’t know when!! 
We can wait in agony together. lol 

Post # 13
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1761 posts
Buzzing bee

@Sweetie Pie 21:  I’m confused. . . Why is March 21 your wedding date in your profile if you’re still waiting?

Post # 14
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1512 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

This is year two of waiting for me. I really thought we would have been engaged a year ago, but nope! He has said that he hopes to be engaged in the next couple months, so I’m a little more hopeful. I’m still not getting my hopes too high just in case plans fall through. I think knowing that it could come any day is a little more nerve wracking though, haha.

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