- 8 years ago
- Wedding: November 2009
I have been married for 1 year and a half, but now when I watch all these tv shows about weddings, gowns and cakes, I really want to do my wedding again, but perfect, or at least almost perfect. Even I am happy with my husband I am going to tell you my story and maybe you can not belive it. Excuse my english writing, I hope you understand.
I was 8 weeks pregnant on my wedding day. I coordinate everything and we did not have a big budget for this. We planned a small wedding on my hometown ( a beach city 1000 miles away) my parents helped me too with planning over there.
One week before the wedding I started bleeding, and the Doctor told me you have to cancel the wedding, of course I did not, he told me I had to rest all the time and be on bed. We flew 2 days before the wedding to my hometown. I had to be on bed, on my wedding day, when I woke up I felt very bad, we decided to go to the hospital, and when I just arrived I had a miscarriage, I was crying because I lost the baby, because was my wedding day and I had appointments for the pictures to be taken on the beach, with the hairdresser, the wedding was scheduled at 7 pm, relatives and friends flew from different cities to be with us that day. I felt pressure to continue with the plan.
I explained to the doctors my situation, TODAY IS MY WEDDING DAY, I HAVE TO BE READY BEFORE 7. They did everything fast, I spent like 6 hours on the hospital, and when I was out, I felt like, well, the show must go on. I missed the appointment with the original hairdresser, I had to go with somebody that just helped me because my situation, with no appointment, I did not take the pictures on the beach, I just took traditional studio pictures, I did not wear my high heels, I did not look my best, of course not!!! I arrieved late to the venue. Finally we did the wedding, only my family knew what happened that morning before the event. Finally the wedding took place, guest did not know my drama that day. But I really feel nostalgic that I could not have a beautiful wedding as I wish, I did not look as pretty as I would like to look.