(Closed) I wish I could not worry….

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1956 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - Tannery Pond at the Darrow School

Of course you’re worried about the weather for your wedding day! I’m worried about the weather for my wedding day and it’s not until June! So obviously, a little worry is natural and is going to happen…But it sounds like you’re doing a lot of worrying, so I will tell you something that has helped me a bit… Two separate people have told me recently that they went to weddings where is rained (and they were both supposed to be outdoors with tented receptions) and both said the wedding was an absolute blast, regardless of the weather! Both reported an atmosphere of “Welp, it’s raining out, let’s dance and party and have a good time!”  Also, I know people have been telling you this but you absolutely CANNOT trust the weather forecast this far out! I’ve done the same thing, looking like, a week or two ahead, and it almost ALWAYS changes…My engagement BBQ in June was forecasted to thunderstorm all day, at 4:00 (party started at 4:30), the weather channel said there was a 90% chance of rain in my zip code…And it was beautiful and sunny all day. So try not to look at the forecast until a few days before! You’re obviously going to be somewhat worried about everything but try not to let it overshadow all the wonderful feelings and love that are going to make your wedding day amazing!!!

Post # 4
853 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

i think it’s normal to worry a bit.. but don’t let it overwhelm you. it sounds like you’re already prepared with a plan b for inclement weather. just hope for the best.. if not, you’ll have great memories of the time when..

Post # 5
4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

This isn’t helpful but, I’d be worried too!  I think its a brides nature to worry about that, you’ve spent your entire engagement if not longer with the vision of your wedding and if its an outdoor vision- you need the rain to hold off!  Don’t feel crazy for obsessing, that’s something I’d do.  I really hope it does work out!  If only we could negotiate with mother nature! 

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