(Closed) I wish I hadn’t asked her and advice for brides picking their BMs

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Ryansgirl: Sorry that you have to go through this….

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Why don’t you just save yourself the grief and ask her to step down. Doesn’t sound as if she will care all that much to be honest.

 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

based on this post, i dont think you have “grounds to fire her”.  i don’t know the contents of your other posts about her, though.  i would just readjust your expectations and assume she won’t be helping with anything wedding related.  she isn’t obligated do help you with anything, after all.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

I just think is such a shame that one of the other girls who is more excited and on your ‘page’ can’t be a Bridesmaid or Best Man instead.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I DITTO YOUR ADVICE TO THOSE PICKING BRIDESMAIDS and I feel your pain. 🙁

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

sorry, i misunderstood.

i guess i was also responding to the bees who suggested you ask her to step down.

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m going through a situation myself that makes me regret jumping the gun asking someone to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  I’m thinking I may have to “fire” her.  She has no interest. She hasn’t replied to any of my messages.  She backed out on a few things.  It’s stupid stuff.  Part of me wants to give her a chance to come around – especially because I have 14 months until my wedding.  But I’d rather get down to the nitty gritty now than weeks before my wedding.

Sorry you’re going through a hard time as well.  It totally blows and I second your advice.

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