Post # 1
So, for a variety of reasons I won’t get into, I am in on the planning of a surprise bachelor party for Fi. Both men and women are involved in planning it, and we hope to really pull one over on him with a thorough kidnapping!
Problem is, Fi and I have been living together so long I’ve forgotten how to be sneaky. My Maid/Matron of Honor (who is also helping, haha) called me last night while Fi and I were sitting on the couch and as soon as she realized he was back from out of town, she said she’d just email me, so we quickly got off the phone.
Fi: Who was that?
Me: Ummm … Maid/Matron of Honor.
Fi: Oh, what’d she want?
Me: … I … she … wondered if you were back in town yet.
Later, I received several emails and text messages on my phone, which of course makes different noises for each, and Fi was curious as to who was blowing me up. I fumbled my way through the answers to those questions too!
Haha anyone else try to keep a secret from Fi and find it OUTRAGEOUSLY difficult and stressful?? Honestly, how people can manage to carry on affairs when they live with someone is just beyond me!
Post # 3
I’m the SAME WAY!! I would be a terrible cheater. I can barely contain it when I’ve found the best present for him come birthday/Christmas/anniversary. I have even let it slip before that I’ve found something amazing, just don’t tell him what obviously.
I share everything with him, so refraining myself from telling him something is just so unnatural!
Post # 4
I am such a horrible liar. FI can always see right through me.
Post # 5
I dont even try to lie. Im that bad at it. I just hang my head and admit whatever nonsense it is im doing lol. Even white lies are hard for me. for example
Fiance: hey hun, do you think this shirt looks really bad on me?
Me:*shifty eyes*….no…its fine… its a…really good looking actually.
Fiance: I knew it, you hate it, and it makes me uncomfortable anyway. thanks baby
I attempt to lie and somehow the truth still is what he sees because im so horrible at it. And im notorious for smiling when I lie, its just a nervous habit I guess and it gives me away every single time! My friends make jokes like “dont forget, never rob a bank with stardust, you will get caught immediately”. all because im a big pile of fail when it comes to being sneaky or lying.
Post # 6
I instantly can’t stop smiling/laughing if I am telling a lie. Seriously, I am the worst!
Post # 7
I am horrible at it! Fiance knows when I lie bc I can’t look at him and can’t keep a straight face, I’m always smiling. (Remind you, they are lies about petty things, nothing big…like him asking if I did something I said yes but I really hadn’t yet) lol
By The Way – Your topic scared me! I thought you cheated cheated lol Whewww
Post # 8
@panterapeach: I do as well. I couldn’t keep a straight face if my life depended on it.
Post # 9
@Rouquine: Glad to know Im not the only one. Whats bad is the more I try to keep a straight face, the more I smile and end up crying I am laughing so much.
I am awful at poker.
Post # 10
m awful Im such a straight foward person and I always would be like don`t worry about it, instead of fibbing which of course is admitting something is up lol
Post # 11
I can lie to people I don’t love (grew up with an abusive father, so I learned to lie to get by and avoid further trouble with him), but I cannot lie or keep anything from my fiancÃ©. I tell him everything. He’s the same way with me…hence why I knew where and when I was being proposed to (and he barely kept how he was doing it a secret) lol.
Post # 12
Scarily, I am very good at lying. When I was a kid I could lie to my parents at will and I never, ever once got caught. I’m not proud of it! But I chose my lies and planned them very carefully. They were few and far between and only for a very good reason (in my teenage mind at the time). Whereas my sister was really stupid and lied about everything – she always got caught.
People believe anything I tell them, for some reason, even to this day.
So, I am now a stickler for the truth, because I know I exude that quality. Hehe.
Post # 13
@panterapeach: OMG, I’m horrible at poker! We were playing with friends and they couldn’t stop laughing at me. I now cannot play poker in Vegas, even though I never have and want to, but it’ll just be written all over my face lol
Post # 14
Hahaha I’m fine with lying about fun things like gifts or general surprises — like, I could easily keep this party for him a surprise if people weren’t CALLING AND TEXTING ME ABOUT IT all the time!!! Haha I’m running out of good excuses and explanations for who could be trying to get ahold of me! I better get my act together or he might ACTUALLY think I’m cheating on him and start going through my phone or something … and then he’d know about his surprise! (and probably be extraordinarily relieved …)
Post # 15
@panterapeach: I’m a terrible liar, but I’m actually really good at poker!
I can’t lie to Fiance though. He just knows. It’s creepy.
Post # 16
I’ve never been put in a situation where I’ve had to lie to him but I know for a fact that he can’t keep a secret from me. He’s actually a really good liar but when it comes to me, he just babbles off everything.
In our last apartment, roaches started showing up soon after my neighbors moved in and he would tell me everytime he found one, even after I told him I didn’t want to know. He said “I try to, but I can’t! I have to tell you everything” He’s told me everything he’s ever done. I joked with him that he could never cheat on me. He would come home right afterwards crying and guilt-ridden and then go on to tell me every last detail.