(Closed) I'd like your thoughts on this

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 1
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Darling Husband and I were married in September (yay!

  • This topic was modified 3 years, 10 months ago by  naptime. Reason: most of origional question didnt post...weird
Post # 2
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Hmm…for some reason my whole question isn’t posting. I’ll try again. A pal asked my new hubby not to wear his ring at a party we will be going to, because his long time gf will be upset if she knew we had gotten married. Your thoughts?

Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

Your husband’s friend is an idiot.  Whatever his reasons for not marrying his girlfriend yet, he needs to own them, and not ask his friends to rearrange their lives for him.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

My thoughts?

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

That’s ridiculous. Tell him to wear the ring.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Most ridiculous thing I’ve heard all morning!

Post # 8
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Busy bee

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Your husbands friend is dumb and I feel sorry for his girlfriend.

 

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

KC-2722:  I feel sorry for her too! And I mean, really, I’ll be there too, does he think I’ll go along with this nonsense, lol.

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

His girlfriend being upset that they are not married yet is not your husband’s problem. This friend needs to examine his own issues with his girlfriend and trying to get your husband not to wear his ring is a way of avoiding whatever problems he has with her. Not a good way to behave in a relationship and by agreeing your husband would be allowing him to conintue avoiding his issues. Definitely don’t do it and tell this friend to deal with his own shit like an adult.

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

I’m waiting on a proposal and find this ridiculous. He better wear that ring! Give me a break!!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

If he was your husbands friend, why wasn’t he at the wedding? I feel like she should already know, being the LONGTIME girlfriend of a your hubby’s friend… Sounds a bit made up to me.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

naptime:  AH! You’ll be there too.. That’s even worse. What an odd request.

Post # 15
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

He’s an associate that we only see occasionally. We had a small (50 people) wedding. I wish this was made up, lol. Now it’ll be very awkward when I see them next week. 

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