Post # 1
Hello Bees! I am having a secular wedding – one friend will be the officiant, one friend will do a reading. I have 2 other friends I would like to include in the wedding in some meaningful way…..anyone have any good ideas? I don’t want to have them as ushers (we have people lined up for that too). There is the obvious “have 2 readings” but if anyone has seen or done something else, I am all ears! (Also, while I love ’em to death, neither friend can hold a tune in a bucket, so singing a pretty song is out). Thanks!
Post # 3
Maybe they can’t sing, but perhaps one or both of them can play an instrument?
Other than that and the traditional readings, I’m out of ideas. Wish I could be more help. :-
Post # 4
Hmm…that is a tough one. Are you having anyone announce the cake cutting, etc. during the wedding? Maybe they could be the “announcer”? Or second photographer/videographer? Passing out programs?
Post # 5
Perhaps one of them could offer the toast at the reception?
Post # 6
Maybe one could read a poem. Or give a speech. Or like MsJ26 said, announce something.
I’m kind of out of ideas other than that, assuming they are adults.
Post # 7
I know you are having a secular wedding, but having them light the two candles that surround the unity candle would be a touching symbol.
Post # 8
Thank you for the suggestions! We are getting married outside, so we will be doing the unity sand (instead of candle) but I think we will have our parents bring up the sand (the idea being the unification of the two families). After spending an awesome weekend with one of the girls, I think I am going to ask her to be my 5th Bridesmaid or Best Man. FI is also having an awesome weekend with one of his buds, whom I think he wants to to ask to be his 5th groomsman, so it should all work out. I was not super keen on having 5 BM’s, but I am changing my views – now I am just appreciative that I have some many wonderful friends who will stand up for me!