(Closed) Ideas to Honor FI deceased dad?? (I appreciate your help!)

posted 6 years ago in Family
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

This is a really tough one. It depends a lot on your FI’s perspective about his father’s death. I’d talk to him about whatever it is that you do, before you do it. 

My dad died a few years ago (luckily Fiance did get to meet him but certainly didn’t get to know his as well as I would have liked)…I don’t know how I’d feel about Fiance writing him a letter…on the one hand it would be really nice, but on the other it would just highlight again how much it sucks that Fiance didn’t ever get to actually say those things to him. Again, it’s really based on how your Fiance feels about the whole situation. 

Some common ways of honoring a deceased parent at the wedding: having the minister mention him, putting mention of him in the program/other wedding stationary, mentioning him in a toast, photos of him in an honorable place, empty seat left in memory of him (that one seems a little depressing to me, though), lighting a candle in his memory…

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